Dear Q,

Words are symbols; they have no meaning beyond that which is ascribed to them by those who speak them, hear them, write them, or read them.  As symbols, they can be powerful beyond measure.  They can cut wounds deeper than a stone can, then they can pour salt into it and watch it burn.

Be conscious of the words you use.  Be kind and responsible with them.  Be aware of the implications of words, for implication outweighs intention.

Take this lesson from your Nanni:

The N-word evokes an image that I have been trying to banish from my brain my whole life.
I see a man in chains on the auction block, his body scarred and his head hanging down in defeat.
I see a screaming woman, torn from her children, sold to a master who will rape her.
It makes me feel pity for people who don’t need my pity.
They deserve my respect.

Linda Dale 2009

Love Always,
Mom (and Nanni)